Yep. We've been away. School has closed for the summer already, and so, we took advantage of our self-declared long weekend to visit relatives and friends up north. Since school ended on a Thursday, we left that Friday to avoid other travelers on their way to their summer destinations - we hoped everybody would wait for the weekend to go places.
The drive usually takes us around 4 - 5 hours to our first destination, counting in a couple of stops to rest, fill the car up, and change drivers. It was different this time. After we changed drivers, we noticed that the freeway was clogged. All the cars were just stopped. We didn't have any idea how long the congestion was (everything was stopped for as far as we can see, and it was pretty far since the freeway was running in pretty much a straight line) or how long it would take before the traffic clears. So, we attempted to make a detour around our regular route which took the drive about an hour longer. We didn't try to find out what happened or whether it would be faster if we just stayed with the traffic; we were quite happy with the detour. If for anything, it was a different scenery than what we were used to taking the same route every time.
And so, we arrived at J and L's place in Gilroy around dinnertime. We went out for dinner, and while we were lingering over the food, the kids were doing something that L couldn't tell what. I was seated across the table from L, and the kids were behind me, playing, since they were already finished with their food. L was looking on, curious at them, and so I turned to check. D and A were standing facing each other, one would be jogging or jumping in place, the other would have both hands in fists, one fist on top of the other and shaking it as if they were holding on to something. Then they would laugh and switch "duties". It took me a couple of minutes to figure it out.....they were pretending they were playing Wii, and one of them is the character the other one is playing. Now, really.....how creative and funny is that? They were having a lot of fun, too, they didn't mind that we were just taking our time with our food. After dinner, we just headed back to their place, watched a little TV before heading off to bed. D was a little emotional, we thought it was funny. Since we were sleeping over, we were sleeping in 2 beds in the same room. A wanted to sleep with me, but I told her she should sleep with D. I was still talking with A about bed assignments when I glanced over to D who was silently crying. Then she said, "I feel like A doesn't like me." I guess A felt sorry for D, she didn't hesitate when I told her to go console D. She gave D a hug and she said she'd sleep next to her. No more fuss. I should note that D is much older than A. They fight over petty stuff all the time, but I am really glad that they are very sweet with each other most times.
We left a little later after lunch the following day and drove on to SF. We were surprised that they were preparing a lot of food, we thought they were having a party....so much food that we would forget how it was to be hungry for the next couple of days. *lol*
Anyway, I haven't really given it much thought before since we were quite used to it, but it was somehow funny (or odd) that we drove some 300 miles to Gilroy, and the weather was practically the same as to where we came from, and an hour's drive further, it was crazy cold. Not that we didn't like the cold, it was pleasant to have in the middle of summer, it was just kinda weird.
Sunday, we met up with friends, and again, it was mostly around food. It was really nice seeing all of them again, though. That part, I don't mind. Funny thing, hubby nicked the car's metal spokes on the curb outside Y and R's house. There must be something about him, new cars and the curbs in DC. I am not saying that without basis. The first time a similar incident happened, it was when the minivan was about a couple of months old....and yes, in DC. This time, it's his 6-month-old car (which by the way, happened to be sandwiched in a traffic accident within a week of having the car plates put in, and the windshield cracked a couple of weeks after) on it's first time in DC. So, imagine how I was snickering when he was saying under his breath, "I hate DC..." Although I generally think his car is probably jinxed somehow. Knock on wood.
Monday, we drove back to Gilroy and just spent the day hanging out. We were driving home the next day, so we decided to take it slow. We left early on Tuesday since we did not want to get caught in traffic, and there were a few things that we still wanted to get done once we got home. The drive back was uneventful, other than it was hot. The girls just slept most of the way, I was quite surprised.
And since we were quite tired already by late afternoon, I decided to just fry some fish for dinner. A was insisting she wants to help out in the kitchen. I told her I was ok since it was just the fish that I needed to get cooking....so, she was playing with the fish, poking it in the eye and near the mouth. She was saying, too, that it wasn't real fish, it was food fish. I had to explain that it is still fish, only it's already dead because we were going to eat it. After I fried it, she said, "Now, THAT is real fish." I really don't know what goes on in this child's mind. During dinner, she again raised the topic of The Fish.
She asked: "Do fish live in the ocean?" D said yes, J said, "There might be fish where there is water. OK, let's think about bodies of water where fish can live." D said, "River, lake, sea." A said, "Swimming pool." J rephrased, "OK, where can we find fish?" A said, "In my mouth." We were dumbfounded. Maybe we were all looking weird at her, she continued, "Well, I AM eating fish. There's fish in my mouth, see?"